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Wednesday, January 18, 2012

Does Positivity has Limitations.....?

 
Do u know any critics of positive attitude?

 
Positivity is matter of emotions.

Practically emotions are governed by mind, who says they are only related to the heart factor.

 
When positivity is around we feel alive and buoyant.We always thrive for positivity in life no matter what the situation, we are suppose to get up and fight with it positively.

 
  • If  we are failed in exams people say Be Positive work hard.
  • If we dropped some crash course Friends say don't worry Be Positive.
  • If we fail in love ...no matter how badly, loved ones say Be Positive u will get another.
  • If we loose a game, co-players say never loose hope practise more, Be Positive.
  • If we end up failing in a job interview, friends boost up for the another, Remain Postive.
  • If we had a disastrous relationship family consoles, try to find ways to Be Positive.
  • If we end up saying sorry numerous times to the person whom u love, inspte not having your mistake, life demands - Be positive.
  • If an arrogant and autocratic boss threats you to be fired,as you can not backbite and bitch around or just not able to support his/her wrong deeds, responsibility demands - Be positive.
  • If you are fooling around  with don't know how many girls at a time, one fine day you are backstapped,the next morning you will wake up and will say to yourself  Be positive.
  • If a child's trying to ride a bicycle, rolling over again n again, Papa Says don't worry My baby Be positive. 
Above mentioned are just few examples where we are suppose to be positive in life.Positivity is our consciousness which keeps all the negative aura behind and away from our life.
 
Now take some examples of typical negative self-talk and how you might put a more positive spin on these internal (or external) conversations.Just try it out trust me its practical.

 
Negative self-talk Positive spin
I’ve never done it before. It’s an opportunity to learn something.
It’s too complicated. I’ll tackle it from a different angle.
I don’t have the resources. Necessity is the mother of invention.
There’s not enough time. Let’s re-evaluate some priorities.
There’s no way it will work. I can learn to make it work.
It’s too radical a change.Let’s take a chance.
No one communicates with me.I will start the conversation.
I’m not getting any better at this.I want to give it another chance.

As life grows it brings lot of moments where you r all alone "LIKE GOD", but still accumulating strength n positivity to deal with the chaos.Somehow eventually from deep of our heart we all feel does there is a limit to remain positive or how long i will have to be positive.This question comes to every human mind and he/she looks for an answer to it certainly.

 
Come on guys share your experiences of being positive in life, and What is the limit to it ?

3 comments:

  1. nice..write up...di..keep exploring urself....all the best...

    Love U

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  2. To, Erika,
    It came out very late i suppose but no backing up this time sweety.

    Thanks i know u r there.

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  3. Look at the weaknesses with compassion, not accusation,when ever you start the odyssey of self realization it can never be late. It’s not what y’re not doing or should be doing that’s the issue. The issue is your own chosen response to the situation and what you should be doing. If you start to think the problem is “out there,” stop yourself. That thought is the problem, just go get it & beat the heck out of anything which stops U from realizing Ur dreams.

    As time keeps changing and ones vibrations are moving into higher realms and seeing thinner veils & become more enlightened – more aware of who we really are and becoming fully conscious that we are all connected. Universe is one ~ we are perfect in our own little ways in God's greatest wisdom.

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