"You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. Because it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can know who you are, what you can rise from, how you can still come out of it.”
―Maya Angelou
These lines give me ample reasons to personify my life into a terrain of love and pain. When I see people getting resilient and grit about something, I feel Ohh, My! Is life legitimate to just one soul on this earth?
But the question is how one can be more pliant? Leaving our “so called” egos in a bin! How can we wave-off the challenges that life throws on us in-and-out, and we come out as a successor.
I tried to peep into my hard times in life, which is still not ending and finding no hope to end as well. But I looked up to the difficult situations and went to the insight of knowing how I can be resilient!
When we are on the verge of life and death, then what we do that losers don’t! We love and spread love!
I have to deal with broken heart, unemployment, personal setbacks, betrayers, and many more …But I was taught a lesson not to lose faith in ME. Here’s some steps that I learned, of being resilient in life.
1. The first thing when you face a difficulty is to accept it, but alas, we don’t do it. Sounds pretty obvious but in real we avoid it, we just accept it on the surface level. Because when you stay ignorant or live in refutation, things get shoddier — SO, when you know you’re in trouble you can act.
2. Managing emotions sounds stupid and insane. But if you know the art you are through to the life’s jungle. Thus, don’t rush, as rash decisions rarely result in positive outcomes. Resilient people remain calm and gradually act by analyzing the situation.
3. You know the secret of resilience is being a quitter! So no you must be thinking I’m mad, she herself doesn’t know what she is writing! No wait! See these examples –
You quit baseball when you were just 10, and you quit playing the piano after just 2 lessons. So, nobody sticks with everything in life. How you can?
When you know a company starts putting down the recruitment, there’s always one smart chap to instantly jump the ship and preemptively get into a new one.
4. One study conducted by Marshall Goldsmith says, that successful people are all delusional. And there are some crazy people who face and survive difficult situations feels over confident too. Sounds crazy, right? The distinction between the denial and handling the situation over confidently is upto you.
5. Keep yourself busy, busy and just busy….. Ohh Yes it works! No scope for shit in life. Often people face quells of emotions and get scared, but the resilient person knows how to stay happy and busy.
6. Make your pain a game. Make your boring things fun and stay happy! Be resilient!
TO be resilient and sticky in life, difficulties are important!
Keep sharing and spreading Love!
